# A cozy night routine to end the day softly

A night routine is a few small things you do in the same order, so the day has a clear end. These eight take about 45 minutes, starting an hour or so before bed. Begin with two or three and add more once they feel easy.

8 steps, about 45 minutes.

## The steps

1. **Tidy for 10 minutes** (10 min; Every day, Evening). Set a timer, put things back where they live, and stop when it rings. The point is a calmer room, not a spotless home.
2. **Lay out tomorrow** (5 min; Weekdays, Evening). Bag by the door, clothes on the chair, keys where you will look first. Tomorrow morning has one less thing to find.
3. **Phone on the charger** (1 min; Every day, Before bed). Plug it in across the room, not by your pillow. If it is your alarm, a simple alarm clock can take over that job.
4. **A warm drink** (5 min; Every day, Evening). Herbal tea, warm milk, hot water with lemon: something without caffeine, sipped slowly, sitting down.
5. **Skincare** (5 min; Every day, Before bed). Wash your face, then whatever you like after. Three products you use beat ten you skip.
6. **Three good things** (3 min; Every day, Before bed). Write three small things that went right today, one line each. A kind message and a good lunch both count.
7. **Read in bed** (15 min; Every day, Before bed). A paper book and a few pages. Turn the lamp off when your eyes get heavy, and leave the book on your pillow for tomorrow night.
8. **Lights out at the same time** (1 min; Every day, Before bed). Pick a time that fits your mornings and keep it most nights. Close is fine: within half an hour counts.

## The routine at a glance

| Step | Time | Why |
| --- | --- | --- |
| 1. Tidy for 10 minutes | 10 min | A calm room to wake up to |
| 2. Lay out tomorrow | 5 min | An easier morning |
| 3. Phone on the charger | 1 min | Less scrolling in bed |
| 4. A warm drink | 5 min | A slow, warm pause |
| 5. Skincare | 5 min | A few minutes just for you |
| 6. Three good things | 3 min | The day ends on what went well |
| 7. Read in bed | 15 min | Something to do that is not a screen |
| 8. Lights out at the same time | 1 min | A steady end to every day |
| In all | about 45 minutes | |

## The 10-minute version

Late night? These four still give the day a clear end.

- Phone on the charger, 1 min
- Wash your face, 3 min
- One good thing, 1 min
- Read 5 pages, 5 min

## Make this routine in Cozy

Each step becomes a habit card that fills with color as you tick it off, in the order you do them, with a streak that forgives a hard day. [Cozy](https://www.cozyhabittracker.com/) is a cute habit tracker for iPhone and Android.

## Make it stick

### Start an hour before bed

Begin the routine about an hour before you want to be asleep. If that feels like a lot, start with the last two steps and add earlier ones as you go.

### Let one reminder start it

In Cozy, set a reminder on the first step, like 9 PM for the tidy, and let that one nudge start the rest. Reminders come only on the days the habit is planned.

### Pair it with your morning

A night routine and [a morning routine](https://www.cozyhabittracker.com/routines/morning-routine) work as a pair: lay out tomorrow tonight and the morning has fewer steps. For more evening ideas, see these [sleep habits](https://www.cozyhabittracker.com/habit-ideas/sleep).

## Questions people ask

### What is a good night routine?

A few calm steps in the same order each evening: tidy up, get tomorrow ready, put the phone away, wash up, and read or rest. Keep it short enough that you will still do it on a tired night.

### How long should a night routine be?

Anywhere from 10 minutes to an hour. Start with 10 to 20 minutes and add steps only once those feel easy.

### When should I start my night routine?

About an hour before you want to be asleep is a good place to start. Move it earlier or later until it fits your evenings.

### How do I stop scrolling in bed?

Charge your phone across the room and keep a book on your pillow instead. If you want more help, a [digital detox](https://www.cozyhabittracker.com/challenges/30-day-digital-detox) takes it one small step a day.

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